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How To Let Go When Manifesting A Specific Person

There are four ways you can let go when manifesting a specific person: heal your subconscious mind, stop caring, live in the end result, and retarget your impulses.

Which method you choose depends on your starting point, your ultimate goal, and how you perceive the gap between the two.

In this article, we will explore your three options for how to let go when manifesting your specific person. Then, you’ll be able to determine which path is best for you.

Let’s dive in!


4 Easy Ways To Let Go When You Manifest A Specific Person (Manifest Love, Manifest Ex Back)

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1- Heal your subconscious mind

The first method to let go when manifesting your SP is the quickest, easiest, and gets the best results over time.

Plus, it will help open channels for all your other manifestations to come through as well (not just your specific person.)

It’s to heal your subconscious mind of negative energy.

The problem with your subconscious mind is that it absorbs all the negativity in your life like a sponge.

And even the happiest people who have had the most luck in their lives will still have negativity absorbed because most of it is subtle.

For example, let’s say you just want to manifest your crush to call you and ask you on a date.

Even if your crush is nice to you and you outwardly feel like you have a good chance, your subconscious mind may have absorbed the idea that since it hasn’t happened yet – it won’t.

Or you may have seen your crush dating a different type of person in the past. Maybe their exes look different from you. Even if you’re a confident person, your subconscious mind likely picks up on that difference and makes it stronger than you think!

So it’s hard to let go consciously when your subconscious mind holds on to negativity.

And, if you’re not careful, you will start to believe all those negative things as truth.

That’s why it’s so important to start by eliminating negative thoughts and making sure your subconscious mind and conscious mind are united as one!

But how?


1- No longer caring

The first option you have for letting go when manifesting your SP is to decide that you no longer care whether it works or not.

Obviously, if you have a deep attachment or soul tie to your specific person and you are practically obsessing over them, this won’t work.

But if you just have a slight crush on someone or you are already in moderate contact with them and just want to take your relationship to the next level, your version of letting go is as simple as releasing yourself from the outcome.

Part of the reason so many people struggle with letting go of manifesting their SP is that they believe that if this person doesn’t come into their lives, they will never be happy.

But when you know that you’re already happy without your desired manifestation – or that you would still be fine if it took a bit of time – it’s completely safe to ask the Universe for what you want, then let go!

It really can be just that simple.

Ask the Universe for your SP, assume it will work out in perfect timing, and move forward in your life doing things that raise your vibration and bring you joy.

That’s the first way you can let go when manifesting your specific person.


2- Living in the end

For some people, it’s near impossible to let go of manifesting their SP the first way – and that’s totally understandable.

Maybe it’s not a simple text or call from your crush that you’re after – and your partner of three years suddenly doesn’t want to take the relationship any further and you’re absolutely devastated.

This is so much more serious because you’ve built a life with this person already.

You don’t just want them back – you need them back.

In this case, the second way to let go when manifesting your SP is to live in the end result.

What does that mean?

It means that you keep your attention focused on what you’re trying to manifest as if it’s already happened.

You might be thinking, “How am I supposed to do that when my reality is the exact opposite of what I want?”

And that’s a really great question.

The key is to find a way to bridge the gap between your current reality and your desired manifestation.

For example, if you’re trying to manifest your ex back into your life, you can start by thinking about how good it feels to be in a loving, supportive relationship.

You can focus on the positive aspects of your previous relationship with this person – or any other relationship you’ve had that made you feel good.

You can also imagine what your life will be like once your manifestation comes to fruition.

  • What will you be doing?
  • Where will you be living?
  • Who will be in your life?
  • What will your days look like?

Use your imagination to really paint a picture of what you want, then live in that picture as if it’s already your reality.

This will help you to keep your attention focused on what you want, rather than on what you don’t want.

It will also help you to start vibrating at the frequency of your desired manifestation, which will attract it into your life much faster.


3- Retarget your impulses

The last way you can let go when manifesting your SP is to retarget your impulses.

What do I mean by that?

I mean that you need to become aware of the things you’re doing on a daily basis that are keeping you attached to your specific person in a negative way.

For example, if you’re constantly texting or calling them, stalking their social media, or driving by their house, you’re only going to make it harder for yourself to let go.

You’re also going to be keeping yourself in a lower vibration, which will make it much harder to attract your desired manifestation into your life.

Instead, you need to find things that you can do on a daily basis that will help you to associate thoughts and beliefs about them with supportive ideas.

For example, every time you want to text them because you’re going nuts over what they might be doing, reframe this as “they are manifesting me to want to text them because they are worried about me! But I won’t text them because I am the one in control.”

Or every time you dream about them at night, when you wake up the next morning tell yourself that you dreamt of them because they manifested it.

You are dreaming of them because they have asked the Universe to draw you in.

You see, by reframing these obsessive and compulsive impulses, you are programming yourself to think about your specific person in a more positive way.

You’re also raising your vibration, which will help you to attract them back into your life much faster.


Frequently asked questions about letting go

Now that you know the three ways you can work on letting go of your specific person manifestation, here are answers to some of the most common questions on this topic:


1- How do I know if I am fully letting go?

The best way to know if you are fully letting go is to look at your life and see how it is progressing.

If you find that you are still obsessing over your person, or that your life has not changed in any positive ways since you started manifesting them, then it is a sign that you need to work on letting go even more.


2- What if I can’t stop thinking about them?

If you find that you can’t stop thinking about your person, don’t worry! Letting go doesn’t mean you stop thinking of them or wanting your manifestation to come. You are supposed to continue thinking about the person – you’re just letting go of the panic and worry that you won’t get what you want.


3- What if I don’t want to let go?

If you don’t want to let go then that’s up to you. Sometimes you don’t have to for your manifestation to work out.


4- What if I let go but then I start obsessing again?

If you let go and then find yourself obsessing again, it’s okay. Just gently remind yourself that you are in control of your thoughts and feelings and that you can choose to focus on what you want rather than what you don’t want.


5- How long does it take to manifest a specific person if I let go?

There is no set time frame for how long it takes to manifest a specific person. Everyone is different and everyone’s situation is unique. Just trust that the Universe will bring them to you in perfect timing.


Final thoughts

Hopefully, now you know everything you need to know about how to let go when manifesting a specific person. Just remember that it is up to you how quickly you want to let go and that you are the only one who can decide when you are ready.

The most important thing is to keep your focus on what you want and to take action steps towards manifesting your dream relationship. Everything else will fall into place.