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What Do I Do If My Crush Wants To Stay Friends?

“What do I do if my crush wants to stay friends?”

If this question is spinning around in your mind, you’re not alone.

Much of the time when you have a good friendship bond with someone, deeper feelings easily follow.

But, unfortunately, that love is not always reciprocated.

And it hurts – bad.

If you have expressed interest in a crush and they want to stay friends you have a few options to choose from.

You could choose to stay just friends, you could go no-contact and remove yourself from the equation, or you could take steps to fully get over them completely.

The problem is, none of those have a hint of a possibility of you getting what you really want – your crush!

In this article, we’ll explore one of the lesser-known possibilities out there.

The idea that you could possibly attract your crush to you and manifest their interest!

It’s going to be so fun and you’re going to learn so much…


Let’s go!



1- Decide how you want to handle it

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If your crush has explicitly stated that they want to be friends and you’re experiencing the sting of rejection, there’s no “right” way to handle it.

Some people will tell you that you should not stay friends because it would be too hard for you or send mixed messages.

Others will say going no-contact and preventing future interactions would be in your best interest.

Still, some others will say “the best way to get over someone is to get under someone else” — so you would try to create new romantic partnerships as a temporary distraction.

The truth is you will need to make a decision of how you want to run your life while you work on manifesting your crush.

But there’s no one-size-fits-all approach to this.

The main thing to know if you want to manifest your crush to you is that a lot of it is based on your intuition and trusting that you can tap into your feelings and work in your best interest.

Start by setting a timer for 10-20 minutes and try to connect with your intuition about this.

See what course of action resonates with you the most.

And commit to following that path while you work on manifesting your crush in the background.

You’ll come to find that this part doesn’t matter as much as you probably think it does. 

Keep reading on…


2- Get clear about what you want

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Once you’ve made a concrete choice on how you want to handle things in the meantime, you’ll want to get clear about the outcome you want with your crush.

This is very important because this lack of clarity can prevent you from getting results.

This is actually one of the more common problems people face, but you need to get a handle on it before you move forward. 


So think about these questions:

  • What would be your ideal outcome?
  • Do you want to go out on one romantic date just to see where it goes?
  • Do you think you want to end up married or in a committed relationship?
  • Are you interested in a more physical connection at this time?
  • Would you be excited to just have your first kiss together?


Once you have that figured out, you’re on to the next step.


3- Eliminate negative beliefs

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The third step is inarguably the most important step of all when manifesting your crush (or anything else, for that matter.)

You must understand that 100% of your outcome is down to your thoughts, assumptions, beliefs, and feelings about yourself more than anything else.

Everything that happens in your external reality is a direct result of what you believe about yourself and your potential on the inside.

And the good news is that you have the power to alter your external reality by working on what’s going on in your inner world!


By consistently working to change your thoughts!

There are many ways that you can do this, of course.

But by far the easiest is by using positive affirmations.

You can start by looking at yourself in the mirror each morning and repeating positive affirmations about your worth, your beauty, your confidence, and even your future outcome with your crush.

Doing this in the mirror will help it “gel” better.

Then, you would pay attention to your thoughts throughout the day and anytime you feel something negative, you replace it with an affirmation that is more positive.

This approach works and it works well, but it does have its drawbacks…


The problem with positive affirmations

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Positive affirmations work extremely well if you can bypass your subconscious mind.

You see, manifesting works when you change your thoughts and beliefs to align with your desired outcome.

You become a match for what you seek.

Like, if you believe you are extremely confident, attractive, magnetic, irresistible, and that your crush is secretly obsessed with you… guess what?

You will naturally and automatically behave, speak, interact and move in ways that all too easily bring that to you.

When you become 100% convinced that these things are true, you are unstoppable!

But when your current reality is that you’ve been rejected, your crush appears to be interested in someone completely different from you, your self-esteem is in the toilet, and you’re considering just staying friends to hold on to the crumbs of their presence… what will positive affirmations do?

When your perceived truth is stronger than the affirmation, you don’t uptake it. You find it silly and therefore it doesn’t work!

Yes, you could repeat positive affirmations until you’re blue in the face but if you have very strong limiting beliefs they still don’t work.


The quick & easy solution to solve your problem fast…

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Lucky for you, you don’t have to worry about this at ALL, because there’s a quick & easy solution that can prevent you from falling into this trap!

If you’re serious about getting your crush to view you as more than just a friend, you simply HAVE to check out my Specific Person Subliminal Audio Program!

In just ten minutes a day, you’ll train your subconscious mind to LIVE in the PRESENT REALITY that you are ALREADY in your desired reality with your crush. 


This audio course will help you achieve so much more than you ever imagined. Just by changing your beliefs, thoughts, and assumptions, you can do things like:

  • Manifest your specific person to ask you on a date
  • Make them think about you all the time
  • Become extremely attractive to your crush


And SO much more… 

By now you can probably imagine how much easier it is to attract your specific person to you — rather than having to do all the pulling and tugging yourself.

That’s so much work, is it not?

If all you really have to do is bypass your negative thoughts so you can become a magnet for love, why wouldn’t you just do that instead?

Once you do this, any previous ideas or worries you had can be forever left in the past. 

And then your new life with all of the attention you so deeply crave from your crush will manifest.

And then you can finally free up mental and emotional energy for other areas of your life because this is done!

It’s a no-brainer, is it not?

Get your program now.

You’ll be so happy you did!


4- Become a joyful magnet for love

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Once you’ve started working on your subconscious thoughts, beliefs, and feelings, the next step is to allow it to work!

This is how you become a joyful magnet to attract your crush (and many, many other potential suitors) to you.

You literally become a shining magnet for love and you become one of those people where “there’s something about them” that you can’t put your finger on, but they are just so… compelling.

From this place, you feel amazing doing the thing that probably sounds counterintuitive – but you let go!

You feel so confident and radiant and you know that your crush sees you, notices you, and wants you, so you stop caring about the day-to-day interaction.

(This is why it doesn’t really matter if, in the beginning, you choose to go no-contact, stay friends, find somebody new…)

It’s not about THEM at all.

It’s 100% about YOU and once you realize this and take the steps to become a joyful magnet for love, you stop caring about what they do.

And THAT is when they come crawling just like all the other men or women do.

It’s all about YOU, love…

You’ll see in time.


5- Receive gracefully

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Finally, after some time (you can get results in as few as 27 days with your specific person subliminal program), you will see everything change around you.

They will start calling and texting, glancing at you differently, and you may even have your first date or kiss or whatever it is the next step would be.

(You will have visualized and experienced this a LOT during the program so you’ll know when it starts to happen.)

At this time it’s important to pay attention to how you feel and what you want.

You should always be aware of how you’re feeling because sometimes you get what you want and it turns out to not be the best thing for you.

And that’s okay!


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The main thing here is that you need to put yourself first and make sure that you’re feeling in alignment with all the great feelings and thoughts you have about yourself now and what you deserve, right?

Once you do the programming work to trust, believe, feel and know that you are a high-value person with lots to offer, you must honor that worth by keeping your standards high enough to match.

And… you will also get lots of attention from other people.

Not just romantic but friendships, acquaintances, even financial opportunities.

A rising tide lifts all boats, as they say.

This new life of confidence will bring you many opportunities and blessings and part of receiving them gracefully means making sure you accept only what serves you and let the rest fall away, okay?

(But this is an excellent position to be in, right?)


Final thoughts

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At the end of the day, when your crush tells you that they just want to be friends it can be a really hard pill to swallow.

The immediate action would be to take time alone to collect yourself and realize that such feelings are fleeting.

Spill your feelings to a friend to get them out of your system if you must… then get to work!

Manifesting your crush after they’ve told you they just want to be friends will take you on a beautiful journey that will help you in so many other areas of your life.

People who follow this process wind up more beautiful, confident, self-assured, and in love (both with themselves and their special someone) by the time all is said and done.

So I hope you found this article informative and that you begin taking the steps to get where you want to go right away.

I can’t wait for you to experience the beauty of this process for yourself!

Oh, and by the way…

Don’t forget to get your new program that I recommended to you earlier!

It will help you completely bypass all the negativity most people face and that means you can KNOW, BELIEVE, FEEL, and CREATE your own success story from the inside out…

Then you’ll see how much faster and easier everything gets from there.

Get yours now.


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